Gharjamai
Across the Indian subcontinent, the term Gharjamai refers to a resident son-in-law who lives in a house of his wife's family.
Definition
A man who lives in a house of his wife is known as Gharjamai. He usually lives with his wife's family or depends on his wife's family for support.[1][2][3] The term carries a social stigma in Indian society, as husband is traditionally considered responsible for running the household and depending on the wife's family for support is held in a negative view. In more modern usage, the overall financial position of the son-in-law is considered and taken into account when using this label; if, for example, the son-in-law possesses land or other property, he is not considered a Gharjamai. Varying definitions exist, however.
Films and TV serials both with a serious and light hearted view have been made about this phenomenon.[4]
In popular culture
Movies
TV Series
| Year | TV series |
|---|---|
| 1997-98 | Ghar Jamai |
| 1999–2009 | Yes Boss |
| 1995–2006 | Hum Paanch |
| 2001–04 | Khichdi |
| 2005 | Instant Khichdi |
| 2005–09 | Saat Phere: Saloni Ka Safar |
| 2010–11 | Baat Hamari Pakki Hai |
| 2012–13 | Jhilmil Sitaaron Ka Aangan Hoga |
| 2014–17 | Jamai Raja |
| 2015 | Dil Ki Baatein Dil Hi Jaane |
Books
| Year | Book | Author |
|---|---|---|
| 1961 | A House for Mr. Biswas | V. S. Naipaul |
References
- Mayer, Adrian C. (1998). Caste and Kinship in Central India. Psychology Press. pp. 221–222. ISBN 9780415175678.
- Sengupta, Nirmal (1979). "Destitutes and Development: A Study of the Bauri Community in the Bokaro Region".
- Commissioner, India Census (1933). Census of India, 1931. Manager of Publications. p. 113.
- Ghar Jamai: 1935 at IMDb