I'm Not Okay (I Promise)
"I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" is the lead single and fifth track from My Chemical Romance's second studio album, Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge. "I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" was released to radio on September 28, 2004.[8] The song is also featured on the soundtrack of Burnout 3: Takedown.[9]
"I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" | ||||
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Single by My Chemical Romance | ||||
from the album Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge | ||||
Released | September 13, 2004 | |||
Recorded | 2004 | |||
Genre | ||||
Length | 3:08 | |||
Label | ||||
Songwriter(s) | My Chemical Romance | |||
Producer(s) | Howard Benson | |||
My Chemical Romance singles chronology | ||||
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Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge track listing | ||||
13 tracks
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Music video | ||||
"I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" on YouTube "I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" (Dialogue/MTV Version) on YouTube |
Reception and accolades
It reached number 86 on the US Billboard Hot 100,[10][11] and, in March 2005, number 19 on the UK Singles Chart. The song also helped expand the band's fan base, and has been certified Platinum by the Recording Industry Association of America.[12] It was nominated for the Kerrang! Award for Best Single.[13] The cover art was redone in live action on the inside of the band's DVD Life on the Murder Scene.
Music videos
The first music video version for the song features a montage of concert footage and the band's ordinary life in New Jersey. It was produced by Rafaela Monfradini and Greg Kaplan, who was also the director. It also features pictures of brothers, bassist Mikey Way and lead singer Gerard Way, when they were little kids and teenagers.
The second version music video depicts life inside a fictional American high school in the form of a mock movie trailer. The band appears as a group of outcast students who are repeatedly harassed by another group who are portrayed as popular kids. The band members then attempt to take on the popular kids and ultimately have a showdown in a hallway, with the band members armed with croquet mallets and the popular kids with lacrosse and hockey gear. It also has some clips expressing some emotions and clips of the band playing in a garage. The music video was directed by Marc Webb, and parts of it were filmed at Alexander Hamilton High School and Loyola High School in Los Angeles during August 2004.[14] Greg Kaplan and Rafaelia Monfradini produced the video.[14] The video started production on August 13, 2004.[15]
This version of the video was also named number one on Fuse's 25 Greatest Videos Countdown, beating out other videos such as "Basket Case" by Green Day and "Smells Like Teen Spirit" by Nirvana.
Cover versions
Matt Pond PA recorded a cover of the song for Engine Room Recordings' compilation album Guilt by Association Vol. 2, which was released in November 2008.[16]
Track listing
All tracks written by My Chemical Romance.
US promotional DVD
No. | Title | Length |
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1. | "I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" |
UK promotional CD
No. | Title | Length |
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1. | "I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" (radio edit) | 3:08 |
UK CD1 and 7" vinyl
No. | Title | Length |
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1. | "I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" | 3:09 |
2. | "Bury Me in Black" (demo) | 2:39 |
UK CD2
No. | Title | Length |
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1. | "I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" | 3:09 |
2. | "Bury Me in Black" (demo) | 2:37 |
3. | "You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" (live) | 2:51 |
4. | "I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" (video) |
UK and Australian CD
No. | Title | Length |
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1. | "I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" | 3:09 |
2. | "Bury Me in Black" (demo) | 2:39 |
3. | "You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" (live) | 2:51 |
UK re-release CD1 and iTunes single
No. | Title | Length |
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1. | "I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" | 3:07 |
2. | "You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" (live from BBC Radio 1 Lock Up session) | 3:30 |
UK re-release CD2
No. | Title | Length |
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1. | "I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" | 3:09 |
2. | "You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" (live from BBC Radio 1 Lock Up session) | 3:30 |
3. | "I'm Not Okay (I Promise)" (live from MTV $2 Bill) | 3:24 |
Credits and personnel
- Gerard Way – lead and backing vocals
- Ray Toro – lead guitar
- Frank Iero – rhythm guitar
- Mikey Way – bass guitar
- Matt Pelissier – drums
- Howard Benson - keyboards
- Additional[14]
- Produced by Howard Benson
- Mixed by Richard Costey and Simon Askew
- Engineered and recorded by Dan Wise
- Written by My Chemical Romance
Charts
Chart (2004) | Peak position |
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Australia (ARIA)[17][18] | 65 |
Europe (European Hot 100 Singles)[19] | 67 |
New Zealand (Recorded Music NZ)[20] | 38 |
Scotland (OCC)[21] | 23 |
UK Singles (OCC)[22] | 19 |
US Billboard Hot 100[10] | 86 |
US Billboard Modern Rock Tracks[10] | 4 |
US Billboard Pop 100[10] | 64 |
Certifications
Region | Certification | Certified units/sales |
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United Kingdom (BPI)[23] | Gold | 400,000 |
United States (RIAA)[12] | Platinum | 1,000,000 |
Sales+streaming figures based on certification alone. |
Release history
Region | Date | Label | Format | Catalogue |
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United States | September 12, 2004 |
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DVD | PRODVD101434 |
United Kingdom |
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CD | PRO15076 | |
September 13, 2004 |
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March 7, 2005 | 7" vinyl |
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March 7, 2005 | CD |
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Australia | March 28, 2005 | 9362427522 | ||
United Kingdom | November 7, 2005 |
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