My Secret Garden

My Secret Garden: Women’s Sexual Fantasies is a 1973 book compiled by Nancy Friday, who collected women's fantasies through letters and taped and personal interviews.[1] After including a female sexual fantasy in a novel she submitted for publishing, her editor objected, and Friday shelved the novel. After other women began writing and talking about sex publicly, Friday began thinking about writing a book about female sexual fantasies, first collecting fantasies from her friends, and then advertising in newspapers and magazines for more.[2] She organized these narratives into "rooms", and each is identified by the woman's first name, except for the last chapter, "odd notes", which is presented as the "fleeting thoughts" of many anonymous women. The book revealed that women fantasize, just as men do, and that the content of the fantasies can be as transgressive, or not, as men's. The book, the first published compilation of women's sexual fantasies,[3] refuted many previously accepted notions of female sexuality.

Not to be confused with The Secret Garden.
This article is about the book. For the song by Depeche Mode, see A Broken Frame.
My Secret Garden: Women’s Sexual Fantasies
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AuthorNancy Friday
CountryUnited States
LanguageEnglish
SubjectFemale sexual fantasies
GenreNon-fiction
PublisherTrident Press
Publication date
1973
Pages361
ISBN0-671-27101-6
Followed byForbidden Flowers 

My Secret Garden was banned in the Irish Republic.[4]

A sequel, Forbidden Flowers: More Women’s Sexual Fantasies, followed in 1975.

Contents

Chapter One: The Power of Fantasies

Chapter Two: Why Fantasies?

  • Frustration
  • Insufficiency
  • Sex enhancement
  • Foreplay
  • Approval
  • Exploration
  • Sexual initiative
  • Insatiability
  • Daydreams
  • Masturbation
  • The lesbians

Chapter Three: What do women fantasize about?

  • Anonymity
  • The audience
  • Rape
  • Pain and masochism
  • Domination
  • The sexuality of terror
  • The thrill of the forbidden
  • Transformation
  • The earth mother
  • Incest
  • The zoo
  • Black men
  • Young boys
  • The fetishists
  • Other women
  • Prostitution

Chapter Four: The source of women's fantasies

  • Childhood
  • Sounds
  • Women do look
  • Seeing and reading
  • Random associations

Chapter Five: Guilt and Fantasy

  • Women's Guilt
  • Men's Anxiety

Chapter Six: Fantasy accepted

  • Fantasies
  • Fantasies that should be reality
  • Acting out fantasies
  • Sharing fantasies

Chapter Seven: Odd notes

See also

The play

In 2009, the book was adapted into a full length stage play Multiple O: Women on Top. Playwright John Sable chose Women on Top (another book by Nancy Friday) as the play's title largely due to its more provocative connotation.

References
  1. Sumrell, Robert; Varnelis, Kazys (2010). "Green Screens: Modernism's Secret Garden". In Tilder, Lisa; Blostein, Beth (eds.). Design Ecologies: Essays on the Nature of Design. Princeton Architectural Press. p. 88. ISBN 978-1-56898-783-5.
  2. Friday, Nancy (2001). My Secret Garden: Women's Sexual Fantasies. Quartet Books. pp. 7–17. ISBN 978-0-7043-3294-2.
  3. Foerstel, Herbert N. (2002). Banned in the U.S.A.: A Reference Guide to Book Censorship in Schools and Public Libraries. Greenwood Publishing Group. p. 248. ISBN 978-0-313-31166-6.
  4. "Banned Publications", The Irish Times, Friday 19 November 1976 (pg. 4)


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